grandparents in dream
Interpreted
Female
Age 50
Before Fajr
Unmarried
Oct 17, 2026
Two Dreams About My Deceased Grandparents
I had two dreams on the same night about my deceased grandparents. My family lives in New Zealand, while they lived in Saudi Arabia, so we didn’t see them very often.
Dream 1: My auntie Elham was charging her phone on the couch. My grandfather was also on the couch under a blanket, looking sick and not speaking. He had suffered a stroke when alive, but he normally stayed on a hospital-style bed in his room, so seeing him on the couch was unusual.
My cousin Batal and my brother Saloomi were in a room that looked like a small living room but was actually a toilet in real life . I knocked because someone who wasn’t my mahram was inside and called for Saloomi to come get water with me. My auntie Hno was also there but wasn’t involved.
After we poured water, my grandmother came out of her room and told us to return to the living room, but she stayed in the kitchen. My mother asked me to get her water too. My brother and I recited the whole of Surah Al-A‘la. My grandmother smiled very widely as she heard us and gave us a little rice and chicken.
The kitchen looked normal, except for a table holding different cups. I brought my mother her usual clear cup, and she said her parents always used those cups. My grandmother wore a black jalabiya with gold details, like one I remembered from Saudi Arabia.
Dream 2: I saw my grandmother sitting in her bedroom, which was empty, just as it had been after her death. She was sorting through her clothes and keeping only a green and a purple jalabiya.
My auntie Aisha recorded her from outside the room and sent the video to us on Snapchat. My grandmother initially looked very sad, but when she noticed Aisha recording her, she started smiling and talking. She looked exactly as she had when alive.
She wore her hijab and sat with one leg crossed on the floor and the other knee raised. Her jalabiya was raised enough to show part of her leg.
According to the Qur’an and authentic Sunnah, can these dreams have meaning? Is there any reliable significance to my grandfather’s unusual position, my grandmother’s emotions, her clothes’ colours, the food, or our recitation of Surah Al-A‘la? Can dreams reveal anything about the condition of my relatives in the afterlife. My dream happend before fajr and was odd because i could see them clearly when normally i don’t see people in my dreams.
This is my daughters dream she is 13 but the age down below would not let me put the correct age.
Interpretation & Replies (2)
Sheikh Ibrahim Al-Ansari
Oct 18, 2026 20:27
Assalamu Alaykum.
First, please let your daughter know that having such a clear, vivid dream right before Fajr is very special. The time just before dawn is widely known as the truest time for dreams, and for a thirteen-year-old girl—whose heart is naturally pure and less weighed down by the stresses of the adult world—seeing her deceased grandparents so clearly is a beautiful spiritual connection. Assuming your daughter is there in Saudi Arabia right now, or simply feeling close to the environment and memories of where her grandparents lived, it makes complete sense why their home, her grandmother's familiar jalabiya, and the family gathering felt so vivid and present to her. Even if you didn't get to see them very often when they were alive, in the realm of the soul, that distance disappears completely.
To answer your question directly: yes, in our tradition, dreams can genuinely reflect the state of our loved ones in the hereafter (Barzakh), because they have passed into the realm of truth. Let’s walk through what your daughter saw and what it gently points toward for your family.
Your Grandfather’s Condition
Seeing your grandfather on the living room couch under a blanket, looking unwell and silent, is actually a call for your family’s help. When someone who has passed away appears sick and quiet in a dream, it doesn’t mean they are suffering physically the way they did in this world. Instead, it reflects a spiritual "thirst" or a need for more good deeds to reach them. Notice how he was out on the living room couch instead of isolated in his hospital bed—he was right there in the middle of the family gathering space, almost as if waiting for the family's attention. Near him, your auntie was charging her phone, which is a lovely modern symbol of restoring energy and staying connected. Your grandfather is simply in need of a spiritual "recharge" from his living relatives through charity (sadaqah) and prayers made in his name.
The Water, Modesty, and Surah Al-A‘la
Your daughter’s instinct in the dream to knock on the door out of modesty because a non-mahram cousin was inside, and then going with her brother to fetch water, shows a very conscientious and pure heart. Water in a dream is life, mercy, and relief. Bringing a clear cup of water to her mother—the exact kind of cup her grandparents used to drink from—symbolizes carrying on the family’s purest traditions, faith, and kindness to the next generation.
The most powerful moment in the first dream is your daughter and her brother reciting the entirety of Surah Al-A‘la ("Glorify the name of your Lord, the Most High"), which talks about the hereafter being better and more enduring. Look at your grandmother’s reaction: she smiled widely and gave the children rice and chicken. When a deceased person smiles upon hearing the Qur'an, it is a direct confirmation that the recitation of the living reaches them and brings them immense joy. Furthermore, when a deceased loved one gives good, cooked food like chicken and rice to the living, it is a wonderful sign of blessing, provision (rizq), and goodness coming to those children.
Your Grandmother’s State and the Second Dream
In the first dream, your grandmother wore a black and gold jalabiya, which represents dignity, honor, and high respect in the family. In the second dream, the setting shifts to an empty bedroom where she is sorting her clothes and only keeping a green and a purple jalabiya. This is a deeply comforting image. The empty room represents leaving behind the clutter of this temporary world, and sorting the clothes shows she is only taking what truly matters. Seeing the deceased in green is one of the highest signs of peace, paradise, and a good standing with Allah, while purple reflects dignity and spiritual nobility.
When Auntie Aisha recorded her on Snapchat to send to you all, your grandmother went from looking sad to smiling and talking. Her initial quiet sadness is simply a reflection of the natural separation of death, or missing her family. The moment she realized she was being "seen" and remembered by her loved ones, she smiled to reassure you all that she is at peace.
One small, important detail to pay attention to is that her jalabiya was raised slightly, showing part of her leg. In dream interpretation, clothes represent covering and protection. If a small part of a deceased person’s body is uncovered when they would normally cover it, it can sometimes point to a small, unfinished matter left behind in this world—perhaps a minor unpaid debt, an unfulfilled promise, or simply a small deficiency that needs to be covered by the family’s forgiveness and charity on her behalf.
What You and Your Daughter Should Do Next
Because this dream came before Fajr with such clarity, it is a gentle, loving nudge for your family. Here is how you can honor it:
* Give Charity Specifically for Your Grandfather: Since he appeared unwell and silent, give some sadaqah (even a small amount, or providing cold water and food to those in need) with the specific intention that the reward goes to him. Make plenty of du'a for his peace and elevation.
* Look Into Any Small Matters for Your Grandmother: Have your mother and aunts gently check if your grandmother left behind any small obligations, promises, or even someone she might have had a slight misunderstanding with, and settle or seek forgiveness for it so she is completely "covered."
* Encourage Your Daughter and Son: Let your daughter know that her recitation of Surah Al-A‘la genuinely made her grandmother happy. Encourage her and her brother Saloomi to keep reading the Qur'an and praying for their grandparents, as the prayers of righteous grandchildren are a continuous charity (sadaqah jariyah) that lights up their resting places.
May Allah grant both of her grandparents the highest stations in Jannah, fill their resting places with light, and bless your daughter for her pure heart.
Sheikh Ibrahim Al-Ansari
Oct 18, 2026 20:28
If you have any question feel free to ask. Thank you. May Allah Bless you and your family. Ameen!